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I was going to tag this on to Scotty's thread, but since it has gotten so long, I'll start a new one.
What initiates you? Is it ritual: "Oh, it's 10am coffee break, time to pull a boner".
Or is it this site: "Damn! Liandra's got me folded over again. I gotta go squeeze off a shot"
Or is it a magazine; the secretary up front; your knead-it girl; Playboy; last night's stripper; aliens; sheep auctions; blow-up dolls; etc.
And here's a tantalizing question: Do you switch partners in the middle of your agony and finish with somebody/something other than you started with?
"Apple of my Eye", "bated breath", "brave new world", "caught red-handed" - all coined by Shakespeare.
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I was going to tag this on to Scotty's thread, but since it has gotten so long, I'll start a new one.
What initiates you? Is it ritual: "Oh, it's 10am coffee break, time to pull a boner".
Or is it this site: "Damn! Liandra's got me folded over again. I gotta go squeeze off a shot"
Or is it a magazine; the secretary up front; your knead-it girl; Playboy; last night's stripper; aliens; sheep auctions; blow-up dolls; etc.
And here's a tantalizing question: Do you switch partners in the middle of your agony and finish with somebody/something other than you started with?
*sigh* and just last week we were talking about art.
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*sigh* and just last week we were talking about art.
Sorry, I wasn't really trying to bring the level down, but that peverse sense of humor of mine always sneaks in and as a gatherer of knowledge: I just gotta know! Honest, we'll get back to opera shortly.....
"Apple of my Eye", "bated breath", "brave new world", "caught red-handed" - all coined by Shakespeare.
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I was going to tag this on to Scotty's thread, but since it has gotten so long, I'll start a new one.
What initiates you? Is it ritual: "Oh, it's 10am coffee break, time to pull a boner".
Or is it this site: "Damn! Liandra's got me folded over again. I gotta go squeeze off a shot"
Or is it a magazine; the secretary up front; your knead-it girl; Playboy; last night's stripper; aliens; sheep auctions; blow-up dolls; etc.
And here's a tantalizing question: Do you switch partners in the middle of your agony and finish with somebody/something other than you started with?
I'm a 'firm' believer in use it or lose it! So I try to make time to shake mine... so there is a bit of ritual. From there it usually starts from my most recent chart toppers but then I probably refer back to the 'classics' to finish of the set so to speak!... so the answer is Yes.
Hope no one minds the color and font, I enjoy the feature!
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for me it starts with a certain manic feeling in the air, like a whiff of spring in winter. or if my wife calls and she says something sexy to me but i KNOW there's no chance that night w/ the kids home & all.
sometimes it's because i was just assigned a BIG design project at work and it helps me to find my Chi and balance... you know without resorting to drugs, which i tryyyy to avoid... (pseudoephedrine & dextromethorphan at a high dose puts me in the "state")
wscott
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that's the way it goes. but don't forget, it goes the other way too.
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Sorry I had to reply. Yes it's art that does it for me. If not then it is the thought of being caught naked by any one of the female members of this group.
And the third beast came forth from the ground
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Sorry I had to reply. Yes it's art that does it for me. If not then it is the thought of being caught naked by any one of the female members of this group.
Why, oh why, am I a pragmatist and not a daydreamer. It sounds like a lot more fun!
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It's an evening ritual for me. It helps me fall asleep! Every night I brush my teeth, undress, crawl in bed and...well, you know the rest.
As far as what "get's er done" -- I think about my lady friend. God, she's amazing in bed and has a great body....
*sigh* guess it's going to be early to bed tonight! *wink*
"Look at da Chort?! He's gone mad wit power!"
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Like Zim, masturbation for me is usually a bed-time ritual. I've always had real problems with insomnia, but if I have a nice orgasm or two, I can usually fall asleep in the throes of afterglow...
I always always always have a sexual fantasy in my mind. I usually get on a theme and it lasts for a week or so, but I do have some old favorites that resurface now and again, like tentacle monsters!
I don't generally get off to visual porn (or art) but it will definitely make me think, "Hmmm, now I'm horny -- time for me to masturbate (or find a willing body....) What I have and do masturbate to is pornographic stories, the kinkier the better! I really love Vicotorian erotica!
I am just a big ol' nerd that way!
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Like Zim, masturbation for me is usually a bed-time ritual. I've always had real problems with insomnia, but if I have a nice orgasm or two, I can usually fall asleep in the throes of afterglow...
I always always always have a sexual fantasy in my mind. I usually get on a theme and it lasts for a week or so, but I do have some old favorites that resurface now and again, like tentacle monsters!
I don't generally get off to visual porn (or art) but it will definitely make me think, "Hmmm, now I'm horny -- time for me to masturbate (or find a willing body....) What I have and do masturbate to is pornographic stories, the kinkier the better! I really love Vicotorian erotica!
I am just a big ol' nerd that way!
The feelings involved in sexual activity are normally fantastic, so it makes perfect sense that you will get off on written, rather than visual pornography. Mental images are far more powerful than visual ones, because they are active and the reader controls them, unlike visual images which are passive and cannot be altered. For that reason I also find the written word more enticing than visual images but I understand that most males find visual images more stimulating. Is this an indication of a lack of imagination, or is it a substitution process where the viewer imagines themself in the visualisation? I don't know because visual images don't arouse strong sexual urges in me. Sensual maybe but not sexual.
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The feelings involved in sexual activity are normally fantastic, so it makes perfect sense that you will get off on written, rather than visual pornography. Mental images are far more powerful than visual ones, because they are active and the reader controls them, unlike visual images which are passive and cannot be altered. For that reason I also find the written word more enticing than visual images but I understand that most males find visual images more stimulating. Is this an indication of a lack of imagination, or is it a substitution process where the viewer imagines themself in the visualisation? I don't know because visual images don't arouse strong sexual urges in me. Sensual maybe but not sexual.
You are correct. I find written material far better, as it stimulates my imagination. The problem with photos, especially 'porn' is that the photo subject often projects all the human warmth of a glossy magazine page just out of the freezer. Photos freeze the imagination - making the imagined person to now look like 'the photo' rather than my fave body shape/hair colour and so forth. As well, the writer can suggest reaction and feelings far better than any photo.
And the beat goes on!
Have I ever lied to you before?
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imagination is the key
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