#51 May 14th, 2005 03:50 AM

wantingscott

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Re: male masturbation

It would seem resonable to deduce, judging by the posts to this thread, that ISM members of both of the sexes are very unlikely to be smitten.

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wantingscott

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Re: male masturbation

It would seem resonable to deduce, judging by the posts to this thread, that ISM members of both of the sexes are very unlikely to be smitten.

use it or lose it, as they say...

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voyeur2

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Re: male masturbation

okay: maybe this crosses the line, BUT:
1. how many guys have tasted their semen?
2. how many think that masturbation makes them healthier?

people often ask me how old i am. they think i'm 22 or so. when they hear i'm 35, they're shocked. i think i owe it all to masturbating 3-4 times a week since age 12, i think i kept me young looking...

I too have masturbated frequently (almost daily when a teen) and now look about 10 years younger than I really am.  chech the avatar out - does that look over 60?

Yup  and no hair on my palms either.

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wantingscott

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Re: male masturbation

chech the avatar out - does that look over 60?.

nah, man.
you look like one chillin', croissant-eatin mac...

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kdaphoto

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Re: male masturbation

I think that's still a taboo and I still think most women are turned off by the thaught of a man mastrubating in front of them. The thought of being watched by any one of these gorgeous women could be titilating for me but I honestly doubt if it would be for the women.

I've experienced both ways with women and masturbation.  When married that sort of thing was taboo.  After divorce I was seeing a woman who absolutely loved watching me jerk off and I really enjoyed watching her.  It got us both really hot.  In fact she would want me to masterbate while I was going down on her.  She said watching a guy has always turned her on.

I love it personally.  Its not just the mutal enjoyment its the comfort and confidence with your sexuality.

SCSIgirl

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Re: male masturbation

Yup  and no hair on my palms either.

Rats!!  You mean that's a myth???????  And here I've been rubbing it on my head all these years?????

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zimbonies

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Re: male masturbation

Its not just the mutal enjoyment its the comfort and confidence with your sexuality.

Comfort and confidence are a must if you are truly going to enjoy any sexual experience.

Now, to take the thread in a totally different direction:
I was sexually abused when I was 12.  I feel that the experience has made me much more sexually active and over the years has actually aided me in becoming comfortable with sex, masterbation etc.
I realize that being abused can go both ways -- pervert to recluse -- but I feel that it opened my eyes to this wonderful thing called sex and has left me with the perfect balance between "good & evil".  I also think that if this experience had never happened, I may not be as "active" as I am right now...but who knows?

Anyway, that's my story and I'm sticking to it! 

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Torstar

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Re: male masturbation

when i was 14, i was a nude model for an 18 year old (beautiful & female) friend of mine, she was in a photography class. we did the shoot at her friend's apartment. she said i looked "angellic"

now- no one would say that my friend (female) engaged in "underage blah blah blah" because i'm a guy and she's a woman. besides, i had a great time, and it was 20 years ago, so it was all film and negatives.

just wanted to throw that out there...

wscott

This is the kind of stuff that CFNM (Clothed Female Naked Male) websites thrive on. Wow!!!

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wantingscott

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Re: male masturbation

I was sexually abused when I was 12.  I feel that the experience has made me much more sexually active and over the years has actually aided me in becoming comfortable with sex, masterbation etc.

were you abused by someone of your current sexual orientation? i was forced to do porn photogs with my sister at the ages of 4 and 2. it continued until i was 6 or so... i was also raped by the men, but not by my dad (who involved us...)

i am married to a woman, but i do give off the "gay vibe"... it did the opposite for me- i was repressed for years...

wscott

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wantingscott

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Re: male masturbation

This is the kind of stuff that CFNM (Clothed Female Naked Male) websites thrive on. Wow!!!

but you see the duality of the situation? i want to explore that... why the case is different- why it is "cool"... i mean, i enjoyed every second of it, even though (at the time) i had no memory of my "prior" modelling... i do think i was a submissive subject because of it. and, hey- my two female friends were 4 years older, worldly and GORGEOUS!!!  was i trying to (unconsciously) rewrite history?

that night was a masturbation fantasy for years...

wscott

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zimbonies

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Re: male masturbation

were you abused by someone of your current sexual orientation?

Yes, I was abused by my younger male cousin.  He is less than 1 year younger than me, but it's obvious that he was abused as well.  I do not have a gay vibe about me, but I also have an insatiable appetite to be with women....proof positive that it can either opress the urge or make one more sexually active.
BTW, I would never EVER think of forcing anyone to do anything that they don't want to do.  I know what it's like to be forced, and I would much rather them enjoy the experience with me rather than fight it.
On top of that, pedophilia is just sickening to me because it reminds me of my childhood and the bad scars it left.

(Now I'm getting way off the subject...)

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